The House with a Name: Why Every Home Deserves a Little Personality

The House with a Name

Why I Think Every Home Deserves a Little Personality

How Do You Choose a Name for Your House?

A good house name usually comes from something that already makes the home distinctive. Consider the street name, architecture, surrounding trees and landscape, view, history, location and personality of the house. Allison Cobb recommends choosing something memorable but timeless enough that it will still feel appropriate years from now. Once a house has a name, homeowners can incorporate it into a plaque, custom illustration, family crest, stationery, cocktail napkins, matchbooks or glassware.

By Allison Cobb | The Cobb Group

I think we should bring back naming our houses.

Not just beach houses or grand estates with long driveways and gates. I mean your regular house. The one with muddy shoes by the back door, Amazon boxes on the front porch and a dog barking at absolutely nothing. Give it a name.

I started thinking about this recently because we were tossing around names for a house on Long Leaf Lane in Moss Creek. It’s a home tucked beneath the pines and oaks, with a little bit of an Asian influence mixed with a lodge feeling. It has a personality, and somehow calling it by its street address doesn’t quite capture it.

So naturally, I went down the house-naming rabbit hole.

Long Oaks? Pine Manor? Something inspired by the trees? Maybe something that has nothing to do with the street at all?

The more I thought about it, the more I decided I love the whole idea. Named houses have a long tradition in the UK, and I’ve always found something charming about that. Here, we tend to save names for beach cottages, vacation homes or particularly grand houses, and I think we’re missing out.

Your house doesn’t need to be grand to deserve a name. Actually, maybe the less grand the better.

Start With the House You Already Have

The best house names, at least to me, shouldn’t feel as though they were invented by a marketing department. They should feel like they belong. Start with what’s already there. What grows around the house—pines, oaks, palmettos, camellias? Maybe there’s one enormous live oak that seems to preside over the whole property. Look at your street name, too. Sometimes there’s something wonderful hiding there.

Then think about the house itself. Is it tucked away and cozy, open and breezy, a little quirky, very Southern, modern or woodsy? Maybe everyone gravitates to the porch. Maybe there’s a marsh view that has become so much a part of the house that you couldn’t imagine living there without it. Maybe it’s the oak in the front yard or the loblolly pines out back.

Maybe you live under the pines and Pine Manor somehow works. Maybe you’re surrounded by oaks on Long Leaf Lane and Long Oaks sounds like it has always been the name.

Or maybe neither is quite right. That’s part of the fun. You have to live with it for a minute.

I’d resist anything too trendy or something that sounds like it came from a mass-produced sign in a gift shop. You’re naming a home, not a cocktail special. Give it some longevity and a little style, but most importantly, give it a reason.

After nearly twenty years selling real estate in Hilton Head Island and Bluffton, I’m completely convinced that houses have personalities. You can feel them.

I’ve walked into beautiful houses that check every box on paper and somehow leave you cold. Then you walk into another one that isn’t perfect at all and immediately want to sit down and stay awhile. Maybe it’s the way the afternoon light comes through the windows, the screened porch, an old brick floor, beautiful millwork, a slightly crooked fireplace or the enormous oak outside the kitchen window.

Sometimes you can’t identify exactly what it is. The house just has a feeling.

Buyers notice it, too. They may not call it personality, but I see it happen all the time. We can spend the morning talking about square footage, bedroom counts and first-floor primary suites, and then someone walks into a house and says, “Oh. I like this.”

Everything changes.

That’s why I’ve always believed real estate is about much more than the structure itself. A home is also its setting, its history, its neighborhood, its view and all those little things that accumulate over time. A name can capture some of that.

Naturally, Now We Need a Family Crest

Once you’ve named the house, naturally you need a family crest.

I realize this escalated quickly.

But stay with me.

I’m not talking about researching whether your great-great-great-grandfather was the Duke of Something. Make your own. What represents your family and the house? Maybe it’s a live oak, a dachshund, an oyster shell, a golf flag, a boat, a bluebird, a pineapple or even a tiny outline of the house itself. Add the year you moved in or a family initial. Make it beautiful and personal, but please don’t take yourself too seriously.

Then have a simple drawing made of the house with its name underneath.

Now we’re having fun.

Put it on cocktail napkins. Have a few matchbooks made. Etch it onto rocks glasses. Make calling cards or stationery. Put the crest on a Christmas ornament every year. And obviously, you’ll need a plaque by the front door.

This is where David would probably point out that I’ve taken a perfectly innocent idea about naming a house and turned it into an entire branding campaign.

He wouldn’t be wrong. I work in real estate. I can’t help myself.

But underneath all the fun, I do think there’s something meaningful about it.

We spend so much time talking about houses as investments—and of course they are. We talk about appreciation, resale, renovations, market value and whether the kitchen needs updating. Those things matter, particularly when you’re buying or selling. But there’s another side of homeownership that can’t be measured quite so easily.

It’s the part where a house slowly becomes your house.

You learn which floorboard makes noise. You figure out where the morning light hits. You know which porch is best when it rains and which room everyone gravitates toward during a party. You plant something and watch it get enormous. The floors get a little more worn. The trees grow. The house begins collecting evidence that people actually live there.

I love that.

It’s one of the reasons the zellige backsplash and unlacquered brass knobs in my own kitchen make me so happy. Neither is supposed to remain exactly the way it looked on installation day. The brass develops a patina, and the handmade tile catches the light differently from one piece to the next. Almost immediately, they begin to feel seasoned.

There’s a little history there.

I think houses are better with some history. And perhaps giving yours a name is simply another way of saying, we belong here now.

Maybe You’ll See Your House Differently

This is the part I didn’t expect when I first started thinking about all of this. Naming a house makes you notice it.

You start thinking about what actually defines the place. Maybe you realize the giant oak is more important to you than the kitchen. Maybe it’s the view across the marsh at sunset, the loblolly pines swaying overhead or the screened porch where everyone ends up after dinner.

You begin paying attention to the personality of the place rather than just the things you want to change.

I think there’s something grounding about that. We are always renovating, improving and looking ahead to the next project. There’s nothing wrong with any of it—I can come up with a house project faster than almost anyone—but sometimes it’s nice to appreciate the house you already have.

So name it. Give it a crest. Order the ridiculous cocktail napkins. Put a little plaque by the front door.

And when your friends tease you about it, pour them a drink in a rocks glass bearing the family crest and tell them they’re welcome to leave.

They won’t.

Because by then, your house will have a name.

And everyone will want to come over.

FAQ

How do I come up with a good name for my house?

Start with what already makes the house distinctive. Consider its street name, surrounding trees and plants, architecture, view, history, location and personality. Combining two meaningful elements—such as a street name and landscape feature—can create a name that feels as though it naturally belongs to the house.

Can a regular house have a name?

Absolutely. A home does not need to be a grand estate, historic property or vacation house to have a name. Naming an everyday home can give it personality and create a stronger connection between the people who live there and the place itself.

What are good ideas for Southern or Lowcountry house names?

Look to the landscape for inspiration. Live oaks, loblolly pines, palmettos, marshes, rivers, native plants and birds can all inspire Southern or Lowcountry house names. Street names, family history, architectural style and memorable property features are also good starting points.

Should a house name be serious or funny?

Either can work. The best name fits both the personality of the home and the people who live there. If the name will eventually appear on a permanent plaque, stationery or glassware, consider choosing something with enough longevity that you'll still enjoy it years from now.

What can I do with a house name once I choose it?

A house name can appear on an entrance plaque, custom house illustration, family crest, stationery, calling cards, cocktail napkins, matchbooks, Christmas ornaments or glassware. It can be as simple or elaborate as you want.

About Allison Cobb

Allison Cobb | The Cobb Group is a Realtor serving Hilton Head Island, Bluffton and communities throughout the South Carolina Lowcountry. With nearly 20 years of local real estate experience, Allison writes about houses, communities, design and the little details that turn a place into home.

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